THE MAN I LOVE LOVES ANOTHER

  

Haaaahaaaaa, what a title! You really are a clown you know. The Odunayo me I know has a heart of stone. In fact, I do wonder if there is a place in your heart to love any man not alone getting married.

"See this girl o. What do you take me for? Who told you I'm not capable of loving? In fact, my heart is as soft as cotton wool that is why its absorbent level is high. The fact that I don't muse over my love life doesn't mean I don't have someone I love, I just have a better way of showing it. I don't go all lovey-dovey on him", I said to Esther my friend.

So, what is stopping you from showing him to us? That's not even an issue. What do you mean by he is in love with another?

It's not that he is cheating on me o, it's just that he is not giving me much attention as your fiance does. You know, calling for hours everyday and stuffs like that. He loves God too much.

Wonder, they say, will never cease. He loves God too much, you say? If he doesn't love God, bestie, who should he love? Satan?

You are not getting my point, jare. What I am saying is that he isn't giving me enough attention like other couples I know and he talks so much about God that I begin to wonder if he loves God better than he do me.

See this girl o! Is your brain still intact? You want him to love you more than he loves God? Or he should just share the love equally between you? Ladies, ehn! I don't know what you want again o. If he doesn't know God, you will say he is carnal. Let me tell you something:

~A man that loves you more than he loves God can never value you. It is his love for God that will radiate and get to you. There are some things that every normal guy will do, like cheating, that he won't do because the fear of God is in him.

See, I am not saying he shouldn't give you attention. Does he call you regularly? Does he chase God with you? Does he create time for you from time to time? Is he there every crucial moment? Answer me.

"Yes, I nodded my head.

Very good then, if he does this then you are only disturbing yourself. Is it that you want him to be spending 24/7 with you? Why on earth should you even compare your relationship with anyone's? Even mine. We are different and the purpose of your relationship is different from mine, my dear.

Ask yourself this question: Am I not being too selfish with demands? What do I even  want in my relationship? You want a Godly marriage? Then, you need to chase God together with your spouse.